Meditations on a

State of Bliss

Mobirise

A restless cat woke me before it was light, deciding it was time for us both to be up, and since the shroud of sleep had slipped from me, I wandered out , the promise of coming summer warmth gently around me. The grey, pre-dawn light was as soft as the breath of a sleeping lover and at the foot of the limestone cliff stood two deer, aware, calm, unconcerned.  Then quietly, with ballerina steps, their tawny bodies became part of the forest as they faded into cover.  The forest was silent, too early even for the birds, I sipped the bitterness of black tea and put the paddleboard into the car.

The board slid across the taut surface of the river, warm fingers of dawn reaching through the trees towards me. Swans glided and guided their puffball babies, herons stood in stately elegance as I passed, and my world was at peace, a state of bliss.  A Cat Saturday. 

Mobirise

A clear January night left the trail hard and the three of us climbed out of the Vale of Ewyas towards the ridge to the south of Capel-y-Ffin.  I have always found pleasure in travelling with good friends, with ‘good’ defined as both close and of virtue, which my two companions were. Aristotle observed that ‘Good men will be friends for their own sake, that is, in virtue of their goodness.’

The pleasure gained from friends is strongest where the friendship has endured over years and through shared experiences of all types, it is the antipathy of hedonic adaptation. 

In the search for a state of bliss it seems that simplifying is a good place to start, since this also involves removing complexity, negativity and the ‘noise’ from life.   It is not focused on perfection (though there can be bliss in that) because there is often beauty in imperfection; was a daguerotype picture better than a calotype because it was more exact, or did the imperfect calotype add texture and life to the image?  The moment may not be computationally perfect in every way, but it could be blissful.

Bliss has purity but lacks complexity, it holds the moment but loses negativity.  It can involve laughter with friends, the blast of an icy wind on a mountain top, the arms of someone wonderful, the soaring of the soul in a piece of music, or the simplicity of a Cat Saturday. 

© Nick Battersby